YOMI FAWEHINMI @yomitheprof WAS OUR 2ND GUEST SPEAKER ON THE OCTOBER EDITION OF #AARTALK. HE SHARED ON "UNDRESSING SEX"
Good evening. I am happy to be do this. Let’s first undress sex by exploring some myths about sex.
Myth 1: sex is better when you’re young. Fact: sex as a youngster could be faster or more athletic but that doesn’t make it better.
Older adults have reported more emotionally rewarding sex.
Myth 2 : Women are less interested in sex than men: Fact: That’s not always true.
Myth 3: A bigger penis makes for more satisfying sex. Fact: Compatibility of the organs is more important than size.
Myth 4 : Oral sex is safer than Virginal sex. Fact: You can contact sexually transmitted diseases with oral sex.
Myth 5: God hates sex. Fact: God created sex. He also gave us capacity to enjoy it.
Myth: Pornography is good. Fact: Pornography negatively affects us. Porn is acting, you aren't an actor!
Now Lets also explore some truths about truth.
1.Sex isn’t man’s idea. God designed men and women as sexual beings.
2.God made our nervous systems capable of receiving pleasure from the sex act. Sex is therefore a Godly act.
3.So God want us to have rich and satisfying sexual lives. Yes, God doesn't want you to have a boring sexual life.
4.God also created boundaries in sex…. Sex is only permissible in marriage.
5.God also created boundaries in sex…. Sex is only permissible between a man and a woman.
6.The above nullifies homosexuality, masturbation etc
7.God also created boundaries in sex…. Sex is only permissible between human beings not animal.
8.Sex in marriage is good and holy and ordained of God.
9.Another truth is that Men and women are designed to respond to sex differently.
10.Is the felt need for sex the same in both male and female?
11.Many men and women differ significantly in they way they manifest their sexual desire.
12.Studies indicate that the intensity of pleasure& excitation at the time of orgasm in women& ejaculation in men is about the same.
13.Differences between men and women
14.One, during sex, the pathway to climax for men takes a different route from that of women.
15.This path to sexual satisfaction is faster and more direct for the man.
16.Two, most men can become more sexually excited faster than women.
17. Three, sex for men is a more physical phenomenon; sex for women is a deeply emotional experience.
18.Four, men are primarily aroused by visual stimulation-feminine nudity.Women, are typically much less visually oriented than men.
19a.Wholesale and healthy sex requires some ingredients:
19b.Godly and non-selfish sex requires some ingredients:
20.One, each partner should ensure mutual consent and agreement to each sex act
21.The above therefore makes rape a violation of the other person
22.Two, each partner should seek for mutual satisfaction
23.Can we end this cultural belief that only husbands enjoy sex? It should be mutual
24.Three, each partner should ensure mutual commitment to meet each other’s sexual need
25.Four, each partner should ensure mutual respect of each other's sexual preferences
26.Therefore if your spouse doesn’t want oral sex, don’t force it
27.The need for a mutual relationship cannot be over-emphasized.
28.Let me also talk about challenges in sexual lives of people.
29.About 10% of men experience some sex related problems. Premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction are the dominant ones.
30. Sexual dysfunction in a man doesn't allow proper performance.This increases with age. It affects over 50% of men over 70.”
31.Many women have problems with sex at some stage in their life. This also increases with age.
32.Female dysfunction can include loss of desire, loss of arousal, problems with orgasm, and pain during sex.
33.to identify the reasons behind sexual dysfunction,physical&psychological factors & a woman's relationship with d partner matter.
34.for females, loss of desire, is common in women at certain times of life like during pregnancy, diabetes, depression or stress.
35.There are 2 forms of Female Orgasm problems : primary (when a woman has never had an orgasm)
36. Secondary (when a woman has had an orgasm in the past but can't now).
37. Pain during sex (or dyspareunia) is common after the menopause as oestrogen levels fall and the vagina feels dry.
38. If you are single, don’t have sex. If you are married don’t stop having sex.
39. No matter how tempted you are, zip up. You will be happy you did! Also avoid extramarital affairs. Please hold bodi
40. Stop giving yourself excuses for illicit sex. Sex is good. Sex has also destroyed lives and career. Wise Up. Thanks for your time.
Yomi Fawehinmi is a Christian. Husband. Father| Author, Speaker, Trainer| Human Resources, Corporate Responsibility, Leadership, Real Estate. You can follow him on twitter.......
Good evening. I am happy to be do this. Let’s first undress sex by exploring some myths about sex.
Myth 1: sex is better when you’re young. Fact: sex as a youngster could be faster or more athletic but that doesn’t make it better.
Older adults have reported more emotionally rewarding sex.
Myth 2 : Women are less interested in sex than men: Fact: That’s not always true.
Myth 3: A bigger penis makes for more satisfying sex. Fact: Compatibility of the organs is more important than size.
Myth 4 : Oral sex is safer than Virginal sex. Fact: You can contact sexually transmitted diseases with oral sex.
Myth 5: God hates sex. Fact: God created sex. He also gave us capacity to enjoy it.
Myth: Pornography is good. Fact: Pornography negatively affects us. Porn is acting, you aren't an actor!
Now Lets also explore some truths about truth.
1.Sex isn’t man’s idea. God designed men and women as sexual beings.
2.God made our nervous systems capable of receiving pleasure from the sex act. Sex is therefore a Godly act.
3.So God want us to have rich and satisfying sexual lives. Yes, God doesn't want you to have a boring sexual life.
4.God also created boundaries in sex…. Sex is only permissible in marriage.
5.God also created boundaries in sex…. Sex is only permissible between a man and a woman.
6.The above nullifies homosexuality, masturbation etc
7.God also created boundaries in sex…. Sex is only permissible between human beings not animal.
8.Sex in marriage is good and holy and ordained of God.
9.Another truth is that Men and women are designed to respond to sex differently.
10.Is the felt need for sex the same in both male and female?
11.Many men and women differ significantly in they way they manifest their sexual desire.
12.Studies indicate that the intensity of pleasure& excitation at the time of orgasm in women& ejaculation in men is about the same.
13.Differences between men and women
14.One, during sex, the pathway to climax for men takes a different route from that of women.
15.This path to sexual satisfaction is faster and more direct for the man.
16.Two, most men can become more sexually excited faster than women.
17. Three, sex for men is a more physical phenomenon; sex for women is a deeply emotional experience.
18.Four, men are primarily aroused by visual stimulation-feminine nudity.Women, are typically much less visually oriented than men.
19a.Wholesale and healthy sex requires some ingredients:
19b.Godly and non-selfish sex requires some ingredients:
20.One, each partner should ensure mutual consent and agreement to each sex act
21.The above therefore makes rape a violation of the other person
22.Two, each partner should seek for mutual satisfaction
23.Can we end this cultural belief that only husbands enjoy sex? It should be mutual
24.Three, each partner should ensure mutual commitment to meet each other’s sexual need
25.Four, each partner should ensure mutual respect of each other's sexual preferences
26.Therefore if your spouse doesn’t want oral sex, don’t force it
27.The need for a mutual relationship cannot be over-emphasized.
28.Let me also talk about challenges in sexual lives of people.
29.About 10% of men experience some sex related problems. Premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction are the dominant ones.
30. Sexual dysfunction in a man doesn't allow proper performance.This increases with age. It affects over 50% of men over 70.”
31.Many women have problems with sex at some stage in their life. This also increases with age.
32.Female dysfunction can include loss of desire, loss of arousal, problems with orgasm, and pain during sex.
33.to identify the reasons behind sexual dysfunction,physical&psychological factors & a woman's relationship with d partner matter.
34.for females, loss of desire, is common in women at certain times of life like during pregnancy, diabetes, depression or stress.
35.There are 2 forms of Female Orgasm problems : primary (when a woman has never had an orgasm)
36. Secondary (when a woman has had an orgasm in the past but can't now).
37. Pain during sex (or dyspareunia) is common after the menopause as oestrogen levels fall and the vagina feels dry.
38. If you are single, don’t have sex. If you are married don’t stop having sex.
39. No matter how tempted you are, zip up. You will be happy you did! Also avoid extramarital affairs. Please hold bodi
40. Stop giving yourself excuses for illicit sex. Sex is good. Sex has also destroyed lives and career. Wise Up. Thanks for your time.
Yomi Fawehinmi is a Christian. Husband. Father| Author, Speaker, Trainer| Human Resources, Corporate Responsibility, Leadership, Real Estate. You can follow him on twitter.......
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