MEET OUR JULY SPEAKERS ON AARTALK: ADEH JONES TAIWO AKINLAMI OSIRI WISDOM JULIE MOGBO BIODUN ODUNUKWE.
Twitter handles: @TherapistJones @taiwoAkinlami @OsiriWisdom @juliemogbo @biodunodunukwe
ADEH JONES @therapistjones WAS OUR 1st GUEST SPEAKER ON THE JULY EDITION OF #AARTalk. HE SHARED ON "STRATEGIC INOCULATION AGAINST ABUSE."
Am ready for #AARTalk tonight. Are you? Strategies to inoculating your child against abuse.
Great evening everyone, it's humbling to be here, to share the same platform with other great minds and coaches.
Most humbling is having your attention despite your busy schedules and daily distractions.
To get all the statistics of child sexual abuse, go to http://www.abuseandrapetalk.blogspot.com and read through.
Would child abuse and rape ever stop? I doubt. So what do we do to make sure they do not fall victim of such 'madness' ?
I want to share with us how as parents we can strategically inoculate our children from the inevitable.
To deal with abuse and other violence on children, we need to understand that it's an ideological battle...
....which cannot be handled with mere intention, or prayers alone, but with a higher strategy and ideology..
just as shooting skills is not enough to make a great footballer,..
having an idea about sex education wouldn't make you a great parent.
Parenting is a broad topic that an hour wouldn't be enough to dig deep..
....however, Tonight's class will just add to the much, great facilitators have shared and will share on this platform.
To inoculate your children against child sexual abuse, every parent MUST...
Build an enduring relationship with their children. Your children must have faith, and trust you....
....enough to open up and share their burdens with you. There should be daily communication and quality time shared as a family.
Watch your disciplinary strategy or they'll resort to bottling up their issues.
Be involved in your children's activities & life. Always keep an eye on the activities they are involved in, with whom & why.
Teach them age appropriate sex education & boundary. Teach them it's OK to say No to anything they are not comfortable with.
Be intentional about the friends and caregivers you keep. Have friends based on value.
Most abuse on kids are not carried out by strangers, but those around the family. In this regard, no one is to be trusted!
Watch out for red flag of abuse - undue closeness of an adult to a child, an adult with children toys and games..
....always indoor with kids et al. 21st century pedophiles are smart, intelligent and knows so much about sex abuse.
Build capacity and expose yourself to upfront information. You can only parent to the extent of information at your disposal.
As a parent there are 7 vacuums to fill in the life of the child, which mental and emotional vacuum is one.
If a child doesn't feel loved and accept him/herself, the child becomes susceptible to abuse.
As I round up, I want to invite parents who admit they want to learn what it takes to parent effectively in the 21st century.
You can enrol for my parenting E-cademy. To get all details, hook up with me on BBM: 557FD18A. Assets
21st century parenting is a battle for attention, with our kids exposed to download of information channels.
Seeking their attention. Do your children have your attention? Do you have their attention?
The media is selling ideologies (perverted), what ideology are you selling to them? Why should they accept your ideology?
One of our responsibility as parents is debunking such perverted ideologies.
Our children consume so much from the media, lifestyle, culture and ideology.
According to Shelly lubben, over 93% of teens and youths are exposed to pornographic materials.
How can we step in? Distract their attention and get them involved in mind building activities.
If they must watch movies, first watch it, and make sure the contents are OK.
There are great moral and spiritual movies for children. Check your local platforms.
Substitute watching time for family time or reading time. Idleness for them is a NO-NO.
Parenting is not done at home, in church/mosque, not in school, but in the mind of the child.
Strategic parenting is a herculean task, I must confess, however it's worth it.
Why are you raising kids? Answering this will tell if you'll give all that is needed to parent effectively.
As a parent, you're just a steward to the child under your custody. Will you fail?
Let me stop here for tonight. Thank you all for following and the retweets. I honor you all.
Do you have any question to ask about strategic parenting? I'll be glad to answer.
I want to thank @kickagainstrape for having me here. Am humbled.
Adeh Jones is || parenting/Teen Coach || || Practitioner of NLP || BBM: 557FD18A
Twitter handles: @TherapistJones @taiwoAkinlami @OsiriWisdom @juliemogbo @biodunodunukwe
ADEH JONES @therapistjones WAS OUR 1st GUEST SPEAKER ON THE JULY EDITION OF #AARTalk. HE SHARED ON "STRATEGIC INOCULATION AGAINST ABUSE."
Am ready for #AARTalk tonight. Are you? Strategies to inoculating your child against abuse.
Great evening everyone, it's humbling to be here, to share the same platform with other great minds and coaches.
Most humbling is having your attention despite your busy schedules and daily distractions.
To get all the statistics of child sexual abuse, go to http://www.abuseandrapetalk.blogspot.com and read through.
Would child abuse and rape ever stop? I doubt. So what do we do to make sure they do not fall victim of such 'madness' ?
I want to share with us how as parents we can strategically inoculate our children from the inevitable.
To deal with abuse and other violence on children, we need to understand that it's an ideological battle...
....which cannot be handled with mere intention, or prayers alone, but with a higher strategy and ideology..
just as shooting skills is not enough to make a great footballer,..
having an idea about sex education wouldn't make you a great parent.
Parenting is a broad topic that an hour wouldn't be enough to dig deep..
....however, Tonight's class will just add to the much, great facilitators have shared and will share on this platform.
To inoculate your children against child sexual abuse, every parent MUST...
Build an enduring relationship with their children. Your children must have faith, and trust you....
....enough to open up and share their burdens with you. There should be daily communication and quality time shared as a family.
Watch your disciplinary strategy or they'll resort to bottling up their issues.
Be involved in your children's activities & life. Always keep an eye on the activities they are involved in, with whom & why.
Teach them age appropriate sex education & boundary. Teach them it's OK to say No to anything they are not comfortable with.
Be intentional about the friends and caregivers you keep. Have friends based on value.
Most abuse on kids are not carried out by strangers, but those around the family. In this regard, no one is to be trusted!
Watch out for red flag of abuse - undue closeness of an adult to a child, an adult with children toys and games..
....always indoor with kids et al. 21st century pedophiles are smart, intelligent and knows so much about sex abuse.
Build capacity and expose yourself to upfront information. You can only parent to the extent of information at your disposal.
As a parent there are 7 vacuums to fill in the life of the child, which mental and emotional vacuum is one.
If a child doesn't feel loved and accept him/herself, the child becomes susceptible to abuse.
As I round up, I want to invite parents who admit they want to learn what it takes to parent effectively in the 21st century.
You can enrol for my parenting E-cademy. To get all details, hook up with me on BBM: 557FD18A. Assets
21st century parenting is a battle for attention, with our kids exposed to download of information channels.
Seeking their attention. Do your children have your attention? Do you have their attention?
The media is selling ideologies (perverted), what ideology are you selling to them? Why should they accept your ideology?
One of our responsibility as parents is debunking such perverted ideologies.
Our children consume so much from the media, lifestyle, culture and ideology.
According to Shelly lubben, over 93% of teens and youths are exposed to pornographic materials.
How can we step in? Distract their attention and get them involved in mind building activities.
If they must watch movies, first watch it, and make sure the contents are OK.
There are great moral and spiritual movies for children. Check your local platforms.
Substitute watching time for family time or reading time. Idleness for them is a NO-NO.
Parenting is not done at home, in church/mosque, not in school, but in the mind of the child.
Strategic parenting is a herculean task, I must confess, however it's worth it.
Why are you raising kids? Answering this will tell if you'll give all that is needed to parent effectively.
As a parent, you're just a steward to the child under your custody. Will you fail?
Let me stop here for tonight. Thank you all for following and the retweets. I honor you all.
Do you have any question to ask about strategic parenting? I'll be glad to answer.
I want to thank @kickagainstrape for having me here. Am humbled.
Adeh Jones is || parenting/Teen Coach || || Practitioner of NLP || BBM: 557FD18A
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